Human babies are born only with the brain, the hardware. Mind, the software, forms after birth, including OS and all the Apps, which are installed by parents, family, and immediate society. So human babies become what family they are born into.
Cinderella is a European story. It reached England, and the world ruled by them, through translations. In Europe, story has two versions, French, and German.
First Cinderella the name. The girl, mistreated by her stepmother and stepsisters, after completing the day's chores in the evening, used to go and sit in the cinders by Chimney. So they used to call her Cinder-arse (In German version, name is accordingly ashenputtel) which became Cinderella.